12 October 2024

XXVIII Sunday of the Year

QUENCHING THE THIRST FOR “MORE”

Wisdom 7:7-11; Hebrews 4:12-13; Mark 10:17-30

In The Success Syndrome, Steven Berglas writes that individuals who “suffer” from success crave more. He cites the case of Dennis Levine, who was convicted of insider trading in the 1980s. Levine said when his income was $100,000, he hungered for $200,000; when he was making $1 million, he hungered for $3 million. Berglas comments: “People, who find that $200,000 did not make them happy, strangely never ask themselves why they thought $300,000 would make them happy… but keep craving for more.” 

None of us are big-league cravers, but all of us are constantly seeking more. This desire for “more” is at the heart of today’s liturgy.


The young man in the gospel comes to Jesus seeking something more. He has kept the commandments and led a righteous life. Deep down he knows something is missing. How can he fill this void? Jesus’ solution: “Go, sell what you have, and give to the poor…; then come follow me.” 
But the man fails in his quest for “more” on three counts: 
First, he had many possessions. He is “rich” not because he is wealthy but because he is dependent on himself and his resources. 
Second, he lived selfishly. He was rich but was unwilling to share his resources.
Third, he fails to understand the incomparable grace of following Jesus. He is unlike Solomon, who (in the first reading) discovers that Wisdom is superior to all else in his life.

Like Dennis Levine and the young man, we constantly want more. 
How do I quench this desire for more: with people/ things/ gadgets and gizmos/ habits? What are my “possessions”? 

Today’s liturgy reminds us that our cravings can be satisfied only by God. Berglas’ prescription for a cure for the success syndrome: “What’s missing in these people is deep commitment/ religious activity that goes far beyond just writing a cheque to a charity.” What’s missing, in a word, is God!
Blaise Pascal puts this beautifully: “There is a vacuum in the heart of every man [and woman]; a God-shaped vacuum which cannot be filled by any created thing, but only by God, the Creator, made known through Jesus”!

May I allow God to fill the vacuum in my heart; may I quench my thirst for more with him and his love.

05 October 2024

XXVII Sunday of the Year

STAY COMMITTED

Genesis 2:18-24; Hebrews 2:9-11; Mark 10:2-16 or 10:2-12

The elderly couple in the check-out line were talking about their upcoming golden wedding anniversary. The young cashier piped in: “I can’t imagine being married to same man for 50 years!” The wife replied: “Well, honey, until you can… don’t get married!”

This little exchange conveys what marriage is: two people—not only imagining—but also deciding and pledging to stay in a relationship forever. Marriage is a commitment. So are religious life and the priesthood!


This is the core of today’s first reading and gospel.
In response to the Pharisees’ question about the legality of divorce, Jesus argues that Moses’ permission for husbands to divorce (cf. Deuteronomy 24:1-4) was “because of the hardness of your hearts.” 
He, then, turns to the biblical ideal of marriage, as God intended it “from the beginning of creation”. In God’s plan (cf. first reading), marriage is not about male superiority/rights, but a communion of love between complementary partners who become one flesh. This oneness is not only a union of bodies, but also a union of minds, hearts, and wills.
This love reflects God’s love; it is a commitment with a beginning and no end. 

Love-commitment is difficult because it means loving the other as she/he is; it does not redesign a person. Pope Francis alluded to problems in marriage when he said: “Families have difficulties… will quarrel. Sometimes plates fly. And children bring headaches. I don’t want to speak about mothers-in-law… but difficulties are overcome by love.”
There are four p’s to overcome this mega “p”: be prayerful; be positive; be polite; be playful.

What will I do to stay committed?
On a lighter note, someone asked Henry Ford on his fiftieth wedding anniversary for his rule for marital bliss and longevity: “Just the same as in the automobile business: stick to one model.”